CHARACTERISTICS
Couples are united for better or worse with the idea of growing old together. They want to share the same likes and opinions. Their separate individualities blend together to form a "we". They work together for the professional success of the man; the woman often does not work. They raise their children together and believe consensus is a strong value. A good relationship to them is one with little disagreement.
ROLES
Daily roles are organized and the roles of each partner are well defined. More often than not, tasks are
shared out based on gender: the woman takes on household tasks while the man earns the money. All
shared out based on gender: the woman takes on household tasks while the man earns the money. All
decisions are made together.
EXTERNAL ENVIRONMENT
The man is responsible for the social integration of the family. The woman focuses on support and security internally. They complement one another and their dependence on one another is mutual.
ADVANTAGES AND DISADVANTAGES
The relationship gives each partner a lot of stability. Because their roles are well defined, they live in harmony and they know how to avoid conflict. When a problem occurs, they prioritize resolutions. The quiet life of this relationship is based on routine.
Relationship Length: 5 years
We were young and fell in love immediately. Since getting married in 2006, we have had two wonderful children that are the light of my life. I have gotten so consumed with raising the children; I didn’t feel as though I couldn’t have adult conversation anymore. My husband works long hours so I can stay home with the children, so we became disconnected. After using this program, we are able to find ways to communicate non-verbally and show some affection even in front of our children.
